Does this sound like your partner ?
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Does your partner spend a lot of
time on line? Do they have other email accounts, do they use the computer after you have gone to bed, have they changed the passwords on your computer, maybe they delete all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate. It’s common for a cheating partner to use
e-mail to communicate with their lover. Some of the telltale signs in this
category may also be an indication of involvement in an on line or cyber affair.
Don’t take this lightly. These affairs can be as harmful to your marriage as
the real thing. Though they may not involve sexual contact, the emotional
attachment can be extremely strong, and can quickly progress from cyberspace to
physical reality.
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Has your
partner recently started working late or has to attend lots of late
meetings? Business is commonly used
as an excuse to account for large blocks of time away from home. Partners often
use their jobs as a cover for extramarital affairs. Your partner’s work habits
will undoubtedly change as the affair unfolds. Affairs generally require
a considerable amount of time. There are only 24 hours in a day; your partner’s
absences will become increasingly more frequent as they try to steal time from
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Does your home phone ring and when "you"
answer it there's no one there Illicit affairs depend on
repeated contact; many of which take place by phone. These telltale signs of
infidelity are relatively easy to find. Some people take the risk of calling
their lovers from home or having their lovers call them at home. Check your partner’s mobile phone, look at the call log, incoming, outgoing, missed and deleted calls. Check the messaging, texts in and out and deleted. |
Has your
partner changed their style of clothes i.e.: trying to look younger? People having an affair (or even thinking about having
one) will want to make themselves more attractive. They will begin to enhance
his appearance in some way. Be alert for changes in wardrobe, grooming, physical
appearance and personal hygiene. These are usually the most visible signs of
infidelity. If they embark on a drastic self-induced makeover, it’s probably
not for you. .
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Does your partner have little or no interest in sex? Or have they changed their sexual habitsBe alert for any type of changes in the frequency or
the quality of your sex life together. Most important of all: If you suspect
your partner of having an affair, take steps to protect yourself. Do not put
yourself at risk from HIV/AIDS, herpes or other sexually transmitted diseases. Perhaps you find birth-control pills in her medicine
cabinet, and you've had a vasectomy or maybe he carries condoms, and you are on
the pill.
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Do they act nervous or fidgety whenever the name of a colleague or friend of the opposite/same sex is mentioned or talked about Studies show that we are more likely to have an affair
with someone we already know, someone that they come into contact with on a
regular basis – a neighbour, a colleague, a family friend or business
associate. If you’re observant, you may be able to determine the identity of
your partner’s lover by the way they behaves in their presence.
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Take a few
minutes to look over your partner’s car; have they removed the kid’s stuff or
the baby seat? The car can be a rich source of telltale signs. The glove compartment, car seats (underneath and between), the spare tyre well, under the sun visor, the ashtray, the side pockets or compartments, under the floor mats and other nooks and crannies can reveal a wealth of information .Has the passenger seat in the car has been moved and is not in the usual position. Do their clothes smell different, like a lover's perfume or aftershave ? |
Does
your partner hide the credit card bills and banks statements? Affairs cost money. If your partner has
a lover, they will want to wine and dine them entertain and buy the occasional gifts. No
matter how carefully they cover their tracks, sooner or
later this will be reflected in the family finances. Stay alert for financial signs
of infidelity.
Be especially vigilant around the times of the year when gifts are usually exchanged. During the holidays and various other times throughout the year, you may find gifts or cards hidden around your home or in the car. Receipts or credit card bills for gifts may turn up shortly before or after Christmas and Valentine’s Day. Would you like to write for us? Submit articles to Infidelity Resources |
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