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Mike really likes
Denise and has wanted to ask her out for a long time. He first
noticed Denise at his local gym two months ago and was attracted to her
from the start.
Mike has been wanting to ask Denise out on a
date, but just doesn’t know how to. He’d really like
to get to know Denise if he could.
Mike’s situation is like a lot of people who
are interested in asking out someone special, but just don’t know
how. Here are some tips to help you ask someone out on a date:
1) Get past your fear of being rejected by someone
you may ask out on a date. If you fear that someone you ask on a
date may reject you, then you’ll never make it to first base!
You’ve got to start somewhere. So, go ahead ask the person
you’re interested in on a date. Do it now!
If you get an answer of yes for the date,
that’s great! If they say no by rejecting your request for a
date, move onto your next potential date. Just because someone
rejects you for a date, does not mean that the next person will! So
pick your head up, and you’ll get that date with someone special
that deserves you!
2) When you ask for a first date, try to avoid
setting up your first date on a Friday or Saturday. These two
nights are usually reserved for more serious dating. In other
words, if you’re just starting out don’t start on a Friday
or Saturday night until you get more serious about the person
you’re dating. You might want to consider going out on a
Wednesday or Thursday. These days seem to be more flexible for
people during the week. Try to avoid dates on Monday’s if
possible. Most people don’t care for Monday’s!
3) After approaching someone for a date, be specific
when asking that person out for a date. For example, you could
ask the person the following question: I’m interested in seeing a
play at our local theatre on either a Wednesday or Thursday would you
be interested in attending? This question is able to provide the
opportunity for your prospective date to have options on deciding if
they want to go on the date with you and if so, they can choose the day
they want to go on the date and other options such as meeting you at
the theatre, etc...
4) Consider when asking out someone for a date that
you give them a sufficient amount of time for the date to take
place. You may want to schedule the date a week in advance.
However, you can always go with your gut feeling at the time if you
think your prospective date will want to set that date sooner!
5) The best way to ask a person out is in
person. You have the opportunity to see the person you’re
wanting to date face to face and observe their body language and facial
expressions.
Using some or all of these tips to assist you in
asking for a date may help you from having no dates to having dates.
Mike decided to ask Denise out by using these tips and they’ve
been a couple every since their first date! They found they have a lot
in common and enjoy each other’s company. Mike was glad he
finally found the nerve by using these tips to ask Denise out on a
date. Denise was glad he did too!
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